To respec your character in Elden Ring, follow these detailed steps:

1. Defeat Rennala, Queen of the Full Moon
– Location: Raya Lucaria Academy in Liurnia.
– Objective: Defeat Rennala to unlock the ability to respec your character.

2. Access Rennala After Defeat
– Post-Battle Interaction: After defeating Rennala, she will become an NPC that you can interact with in the Grand Library of the Academy.
– Menu Option: Speak with Rennala and select the “Rebirth” option from the menu. This will allow you to redistribute your stats.

3. Use a Larval Tear
– Item Requirement: To respec, you need to spend one Larval Tear. Larval Tears are rare items that can be found in various locations throughout the game.
– Consumption: The Larval Tear is consumed only after confirming your allocation of stats by responding “Yes” to the prompt of “Undergo rebirth?”

4. Locate and Acquire Larval Tears
– Locations:
– South Agheel Lake: East of the South Agheel Lake Site of Grace, kill a zombie enemy that transforms into a large bear to get a Larval Tear.
– Caria Manor: After defeating Royal Knight Loretta, head through the gate and find Pidia, Carian Servant, who sells one Larval Tear for 3000 Runes.
– Consecrated Snowfields: Use the Haligtree Medallion at the Grand Lift of Rold to access the Consecrated Snowfields. Defeat three zombies in the snow, one of which is a Rune bear, to get a Larval Tear.
– Altus Plateau: Travel south of Windmill Village and hug the cliffside to find an undead soldier and then a Lion Guardian, which holds a Larval Tear.
– Mt. Gelmir: Head northeast from the Road of Iniquity Site of Grace and defeat a giant Wormface to get a Larval Tear.
– Siofra River: Buy a Larval Tear from a merchant.
– Nokron: Defeat the Mimic Tear to get two Larval Tears, or find them on corpses near the gazebo or west of it.
– Nokstella: Defeat Silver Tears disguised as balls on the bridge or building north of it.

5. Reallocate Stats
– Menu Navigation: In the Rebirth menu, you can spend Larval Tears to clear your levels and reassign them from square one.
– Stat Restrictions: You must reassign all levels until you reach your present level and cannot make any attributes lower than their initial level determined by your origin.

By following these steps, you can respec your character in Elden Ring, allowing you to make significant changes to your build without having to restart the game.